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hello i m married woman with 2 kid i met a guy on net and we started talking in phone now many a times i feel i m very much attached to him is it extra marital affair what should i do pls help
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is it extra marital affair?
Posted by admin on September 3rd, 2010
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just oral and anal, no regular sex to make babies
yes, why are you doing this. realize if your husband do that same. it is shameful.
you do not even know his looks you never touched each other
how can you possibly think that this is an affair?
i am convinced that if you will get to see him face to face your feelings will change Why? because men are not the same in front of us, on the phone are heroes but when they get to look us in the eyes…..
if you havent had sex with him it is not an affair yet.
you should cut off all contact with him asap and go give your husband a back rub and tell him you love him.
Does it seem wrong ? If it does than it is wrong.
Why go to the barber shop if your not going to get a haircut
Does your husband know about your internet relationship and the extent of it? Would you feel uncomfortable if your husband heard your telephone conversations with this man (and his with you)?
Anything you’d say to or do with anybody else that you wouldn’t say or do if your husband was standing next to you means you are behaving inappropriately, and, yes, in some way, CHEATING.
You don’t have to have a sexual relationship with somebody outside your marriage to be shifting your primary focus and breaking your promises (“forsaking all others”…”for better or for worse”, remember?).
If you are not happy in your marriage, work on it — or leave it.
It’s grossly unfair to your husband (and children) to have another guy on the side.
Find a couples counselor and go.
Hunny, to save all the worrying, stay away from the internet and phone for a while.
If you talk intimately about being with him instead of your husband, then it’s more of an emotional affair.
An affair in the classic sense would be a physical relationship and it’s not just intercourse, it could be anything of a sexual nature.
Now, I know from personal experience when I met someone online and fell for them, you can fall hard. Mind you, I wasn’t in a relationship then.
Are you turning to this guy because you are missing something in your home relationship?? If so, then you need to talk to your husband. Put yourself in his shoes, would you want him doing what you are doing?
Talk to him about your feelings, what part of you is not being satisfied so that talking with this guy is making you happy.
Communication is a wonderful thing, explaining things to some you love will pay off big dividends, you just have to trust.
who cares!! !!
no is not extra marriatial affair..but ur on the way to affair…it seems ur not happy with ur husband…find out reason..stop the net in ur house asap may be it can lead very serious consequences…….have sex with ur hubby and enjoy ur life with babbies
best of luck
it is not an affair-yet-but your mind is involved with him which in my opinion is emotionally extra marital-if you are thinking of someone other than your spouse then obviously there is a problem at home-you should find out what that problem is and deal with it before you meet with this person, or make any decisions-
if it becomes intimate conversation, yes, it would be considered an affair.