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my husbands cheats, i see texts to and from others, he denies it and i have tried to forgive him constantly but he doesnt stop and i cant continue to share him. i want to be his only one or none at all. what does the bible say about that
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what is the biblical thing to do about a cheating spouse?
Posted by admin on September 2nd, 2010
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STONE THE SKANK!!!
unless its a man, then its cool.
Stoning. Unfortunately, that’s illegal. I just had my husband raped through the court system.
You are free to divorce him.
You were from the FIRST TIME.
xoxoxoxo
Adultery with no remorse = divorce.
Even the Catholic churches grants divorce in the case of adultery.
do unto other as they would do unto you.
corte sus pelotas
adultery is grounds for divorce
Know his brother.
The bible says leave the cheating scumbag and find yourself a decent man who won’t treat you like he does. At least that’s what it should say – I don’t actually know as I don’t read fiction.
The biblical decision is up to you. Biblically you have grounds for divorce. If that is the choice you make, there is no guilt or condemnation AND you will be free to marry again if you choose. The other option is to stay in and try to work it out with him, maybe separate for a season and make him prove that you will be his one and only. I can’t promise that option won’t have its aches and pains, but if he truly loves you and truly changes, you will have what you want. If he cheats again, you can opt out if you choose.
MAKE SURE HE IS FIRST ,I KNOW PLENTY OF GUYS THAT WERE SETUP AND NEVER CHEATED AND U KNOW WHAT WHEN YOUR S.O. BELIEVES IT WITHOUT EVEN TALKING TO YOU OR GIVING YOU THE BENIFIT OF THE DOUBT,SO THE BIBLIOGICAL THING TO DO IS TO TAKE OUT YOUR COMPLETE DISGUST AND FURY ON THE BIBLE TOTING SCMBAG THAT THE SL-T IS DATING NOW!!!!!!!!
According to the Bible, Adultery and Abandonment(not clear on whether it’s just physical or if it can be emotional too. Most say only if he/she physically leaves and abandons the spouse, but I don’t know.) are grounds for divorce. I don’t fault anyone in this case for whatever choice they make. Some can forgive and move on with the marriage, which is great. Others can’t, but either way, Biblically, you have grounds to leave if he is cheating. You’ve done nothing wrong if you leave and remarry.
Deuteronomy 24:1-22
“When a man takes a wife and marries her, if then she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some indecency in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house, and she departs out of his house, and if she goes and becomes another man’s wife, and the latter man hates her and writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house, or if the latter man dies, who took her to be his wife, then her former husband, who sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after she has been defiled, for that is an abomination before the Lord. And you shall not bring sin upon the land that the Lord your God is giving you for an inheritance. “When a man is newly married, he shall not go out with the army or be liable for any other public duty. He shall be free at home one year to be happy with his wife whom he has taken. …
Corinthians 7:10-11
To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.
if i were god,
i would punish your husband severly for this. but more importantly, i would feel very disappointed to note that i gave you a brain that you clearly dont use.
i might commend you on trying to be strong in the situation but i will understand if you are also human and collapsed under the pressure. i would also understand if you walked away because of the hurt.
i would send you a line from the bible (my fav) Joshua 1:9
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.”
Divorce him. The bible doesn’t tell you to be a doormat that will get some sexually transmitted disease from him either.