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What would you choose: A lifetime of loveless marriage or a fulfilling extra- marital affair?
Posted by admin on September 3rd, 2010
Posted in Marital Affairs 
Tags: Affair, choose, extra, fulfilling, lifetime, loveless, marital, Marriage, would
the affair…im in a similar situation right now
a loveless marriage would not be enjoyable and i would rather end the marriage before pursuing another. the affair would then not be an affair if you ended the marriage and be content.
neither
Divorce or Separation
I don’t think an extra-marital affair could be called fulfilling in any sense of the word. There are always times when he or she puts their family first and you are left out in the cold. And that doesn’t even address the fact that you could be destroying a family AND, it is immoral. A lifetime of loveless marriage shouldn’t happen either. If you cannot talk your spouse into counseling, then you might consider ending the relationship.
i dont think that is a question that id ever want to choose from b/c for one id never be with that person if i didnt love them just because there could be someone out there looking for one of us that do love us. so i wouldnt be with the affair person cause id be single and looking. i believe that if you are with some one and you truly dont feel for that person then move on because even though that person loves you they will get over it and really find there special some one as so will you and staying with them for the wrong reason holds you back on finding that special peson.
You can in reality have a love-less marriage. However, you can not have a fulfilling extra-marital affair. You should realize this. Best advise I can give is this: If you are in a love-less marriage either work on correcting it, or divorce. Then, after divorce pursue the other. Not both at the same time. An upset woman or ex-wife or ex-girlfriend can give you H*LL.
neither .
Will you answer mine
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Sounds like your fulfilling affair caused your loveless marriage. What is your problem????!!!!
I’m not a martyr. As much as I would like to be noble, I just can’t go the loveless route. If someone can disrespect, pretend to love and marry me then I wouldn’t feel guilty about having a hot and fulfilling extra-marital affair. It’s my life too.