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What kind of woman (that you’re cheating WITH) would make you want to cheat?
Have you ever cheated on a significant other?
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Would you ever consider cheating on a spouse?
Posted by admin on September 3rd, 2010
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What kind of woman (that you’re cheating WITH) would make you want to cheat?
Have you ever cheated on a significant other?
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I may sound kind of funny saying this but honestly no I wouldn’t cheat. I am a very blunt person and I don’t care how long I had/have been with my husband I would get a divorce if things were going so bad in our marriage that I wanted to be with other people way before I would waste my time cheating. My husband and I also have a very good bond with each other so the thought of cheating is just not something I see myself ever considering.. why cheat? why not just divorce first if things are that bad in a marriage?
No i havnt but in my opinion to cheat means there is some problem at home. Not just because who you are cheating with is really hot that may be a contributing factor but 2 me it means thers aprob and 2 me if theres a problem fix it or split up. no need to cheat
Well lets say angelina jolie wanted me. I would smile and say No thanks. Yes it might be a few minutes of pleasure or an hour.
But imagine when i came back home and told my wife that angelina jolie wanted me and i said No. How great my wife would feel for having me. She would treat me good for a LIFETIME rather than the few minutes or an hour i would have had with angelina.
Anyone who hasn’t been tempted is either lying or married for too short a time. (I’ve done enough marriage counseling to be very leary of anyone who claims they aren’t tempted – in fact I have rarely had any woman in an affair who didn’t tell me shame facedly, that she knew she would never cheat) Every marriage goes through stages where you are close and others where you “feel” far apart. Most of us occasionally run into a person or two we bond with easily and realize that that person might be an easy person to have an affair with and the idea of being wanted of having our emotional and or sexual needs met when our partner is not meeting those needs is very alluring.
I had a friend and co-worker who used to travel with me – meaning we’d spend many hours on the road together working on projects we were overseeing. We were both aware of mutual desire and both marriages were sort of marginal at the time. We talked openly and she agreed she wanted to sleep with me and yet we both agreed that while we desired each other and enjoyed each other that we wanted to keep our marriages together and we committed to helping one another avoid the temptation of our mutual lust.
In many ways it was far better than an affair – we both knew we were still desirable people and felt reassured by it and yet we were adult enough to mutually decide that our marriage vows meant something serious to us and we would help each other stay married.
I have never cheated but was cheated on. He wanted to reconcile but there is no forgiving when a spouse cheats then to make matters worse results in a child being conceived. Disgusting behaviors with NO excuse!
Never cheated, never will.
It’s all about respect and boundaries. Don’t form close friendships with the opposite sex. Don’t be alone with a female coworker on business trips when you’re lonely and things can happen. The type of woman is irrelevant…most men just want a warm body. If I cheated, I would have to initiate it…women who come on to me annoy the hell out of me. The arrogance is unreal, like they think they are so amazing they can turn my head. Pathetic.
no never. it’s not worth it.
Nope. Because when I say “I love you” – I mean it. If I ever felt the need to find somethin’ that I thought could be better or whatever, I’d end my relationship – because the other person in the relationship doesn’t deserve to have to go through the heartbreak of someone steppin’ out on them..
I have never cheated. You have to remember that humans are always tempted but you must respect your marriage vows enough to resist temptation.
They are right. Get divorced if you are looking to cheat. The marriage is unhealthy.
I would not, no. I guess it happens sometimes because people aren’t happy with themselves or the situation
when you don’t feel attracted to your other half anymore, when the spark has gone, another person can ignite that spark and it tears you up to walk away.
Why would you ever think of that? If you’re going to cheat on him/her then that shows you don’t want to be in that marriage/relationship!
I would rather die than betray him.
Sure under the right circumstances I would consider cheating – but I wouldn’t do it.
Na, i wuldnt cheat on my spouse BUT if she wasn’t interested in me, was snobbish, too controlling and never wanted to have sex EVER then I probably would